Thursday, November 1, 2007
Update on my father in law's surgery
Ok, he is out of surgery and let start off by saying praise God. Now, it's going to sound as if it's bad news but it's actually not, it starts out bad but looks good. The tumor was back, and it was bigger than the doc thought. Come to find out tho, it's rectal cancer he has, not colon, it had just moved into his colon. So they removed another part of his colon, and had to put in a colostamy bag. Now, since the tumor was bigger than expected and it was lower, the could not remove it. He said the place it's at is too dangerous to try and remove and he can't even get it all if he did try BUT the good news is that it has NOT spread to other organs like the liver or his lymphnods AND the doctor believes with chemo and radiation that it will shink if not completely get rid of the tumor. He doesn't believe it will get all the cancer (unless God decides to) but he does feel that it's going to work wonders and that he is going to be around a long time. So we are all very relieved that even tho it started out as bad...it's actually not. Obviously he's in a lot of pain so they are keeping him in ICU with a spinal block for a few days, then will move him to his own room. Total about 7-10 days in the hospital then they will start treatment in about 3 weeks. Give him some time to heal from the surgery. But again, the doctor was VERY optimistic and really feels this will get him back on his feet and back to normal. So we just really praise God that He took such good care of him and his dad had already commented previously he didn't care about a colostamy bag if that's what it took to feel better. So looks like he's going to be fine so thank you all so much for all the prayer! Now lets just keep praying God uses this new treatment to get rid of the cancer and not make him too sick. Doctor said most people (guess cause of the type they are giving him) don't get sick from the treatment, they are just tired. So thanks again.
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My brother is 40 and he had similar cancer. I was just wondering if your father in law has had any problems adjusting to the bag. My brother has had a terrible time with cramps and constipation. Just wondering if you have any advice. Praise God for all he can do!! Glad to hear your father in law is doing good.
I don't think he's had too much of a problem. At least nothing he's really complained about. But he's had his for a long time now too. How recent is your brothers? Is there the possibility of them re-attaching everything so he doesn't need it? I know they discussed that with my FIL at one time but they said it most likely wouldn't work for him and so instead of going thru all the pain and procedures of trying he is just keeping his. Sadly, he's not doing so well these days.
My brother has only had his for 6 weeks. He has to undergo 6 mos. of kemo, then possibly they can reattach colon and he will be normal. Sorry about your FIL. Hope he gets better or suffering ends.
It may just be that since it's so new it is taking some time to adjust. Especially being as young as he is. Mark's dad is in his 70's so things like that really aren't a big deal to him. He had already undergone surgery (which was VERY hard on him) and chemo so I think the bag was just nothing to him compared to everything else (oh and he had a 2nd surgery too). I am glad to hear the option of re-attachment is possible. I pray he gets to feeling better, I can't imagine how difficult it must be. And yeah, we are to the point with his dad, as saddening as it is, its to the point we just wish his suffering would end.
My brother has only had his for 6 weeks. He has to undergo 6 mos. of kemo, then possibly they can reattach colon and he will be normal. Sorry about your FIL. Hope he gets better or suffering ends.
Thanks for sharing your information. It's nice to talk to someone who knows this type of situation. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time.
Anytime you want to talk I am here. And about anything. If you've been thru it, I probably have too, sadly we've had so much going on and such a rough time lately it seems there isn't something I have not had to deal with. From sickness to bipolar to unknown amounts of stress. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here.
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